- Make time for some fun.
- Set aside relaxation time. Relaxation time should be included in your daily schedule. During your relaxation time, this should be a time where you take a break from your responsibilities and a way to recharge.
- Use the biofeedback lab in the Health and Wellness Center.
- Connect with others. Spend time with people who act as a positive influence on your life. By surrounding yourself with a strong support system, it can take away a lot of the stress in your life.
- Do something you enjoy every day. Make time for leisure activities which make you happy. A lot of people can do this by finding a hobby.
- Keep your sense of humor, laugh. Studies have shown that people who laugh, live a better life.
- Drink a relaxing drink at bedtime.
- Take a deep breath and count to 10.
- In addition, take a moment to step back. Some ways to step back from a situation include:
- Standing up and stretching
- Taking a short walk
- Or anything that changes your focus
- Stop and smell the roses
- Take the time. Take one part of your day where you can recognize the good things in your life.
- Sleep on it. Every issue has it's pros and cons. You can list them both, or just think about them. The look at the list tomorrow, you will feel much better.
- Every cloud has it's silver lining. Find the good things in your stressful situation.
- Know your limitations
- It is okay to say no. Don't be afraid to say no
- Be pro-active in finding peace
- When you need help, get it.
University of the District of Columbia · Relaxation Exercises Audio: Progressive Relaxation Exercise | Combination Relaxation Exercise
Click on the button above to go to UDC's relaxation exercises page. There you will find the progressive and relaxation exercise audio files underneath the "Relaxation Exercises" heading. Here are a few tips to get the most out them.
Try to practice whichever exercise you prefer at least once or twice a day. Expect your ability to relax to improve as you continue practicing, and expect to practice two or three weeks before you become genuinely proficient. Once you learn how to do one of the exercises, you may no longer require the recorded instructions, and you can tailor the exercise to your own liking.
Avoid practicing within an hour before or after a meal (either hunger or feeling full may distract you). Also avoid practicing immediately after engaging in vigorous exercise.
Sit quietly and in a comfortable position, with your legs uncrossed and your arms resting at your sides. This is especially important when you are first learning the exercise.
Adopt a calm, accepting attitude towards your practice. Don’t worry about how well you’re doing or about possible interruptions. Instead, know that with repetition your ability to relax will grow.
When you are ready, close your eyes, begin listening to the recording, and follow the directions. As you complete the exercise, you can expect your mind to wander a bit—when this happens you can simply re-direct your focus back to the recording.
Once you’ve finished, stretch, look around and remain still another minute or two.
As you become skilled with either of the exercises, try applying them to specific situations that might otherwise be anxiety provoking, such as tests, oral presentations, difficult social situations, job interviews, insomnia, and so forth. If you need help learning or applying the exercises, consider meeting with a counselor.